Checklist
Preschool readiness checklist
Readiness for preschool is about more than age. A child who is ready can separate from a caregiver, follow directions, use the bathroom independently, and engage with other children. Use this checklist as a guide, not a strict test.
Physical and self-care skills
- Uses the toilet independently, including washing hands.
- Can feed themselves and open lunch containers.
- Can manage basic clothing such as pants, shoes, and jackets.
- Has the stamina for a part-day program, including outdoor play.
- Can hold crayons, use scissors, and manipulate small objects.
Communication and early learning
- Speaks in sentences that others can mostly understand.
- Listens to short stories and answers simple questions.
- Shows curiosity about letters, numbers, colors, or shapes.
- Can pay attention to a group activity for a few minutes.
- Enjoys books, songs, and simple pretend play.
When to wait another year
If your child is not yet toilet trained, struggles to separate, cannot follow group directions, or has significant speech delays, a little extra time at home or in a smaller program may be better than rushing into preschool.
Many programs allow mid-year enrollment. Talk with the teachers or director about whether your child is likely to thrive now or would benefit from waiting.
Frequently asked questions
- Do all preschools require toilet training?
- Most preschools for 3- and 4-year-olds require children to be toilet trained. Some toddler or “twos” programs may help with potty training, but policies vary.
- What if my child is shy?
- Shyness is common and not a barrier. Teachers help children adjust. A gradual separation or shorter program can help a shy child build confidence.
- Should a 2-year-old be preschool-ready?
- Most 2-year-olds are not ready for a structured preschool classroom. They may be ready for a parent-and-me class or a gentle toddler program.
Social and emotional readiness